
Pam Custers
- MA Relationship Therapy (University of Hull)
- Post Graduate Diploma Relate
- BA Hons Psychology (University of Cape Town)
- MBACP Member of British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists
The Relationship Practice Couple Therapy and Retreats
We support both individuals and couples to navigate their love lives. Rediscover, reconnect and reignite your relationship through bespoke intensive couple retreats and couple counselling with our team of experts

We believe that the difference between having a good and a bad relationship is the difference between thriving or simply surviving

Pam Custers
- MA Relationship Therapy (University of Hull)
- Post Graduate Diploma Relate
- BA Hons Psychology (University of Cape Town)
- MBACP Member of British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists

About The Relationship Practice
We are a solution-focused practice
that will support you to take the steps to enable you to thrive whilst navigating life’s inevitable challenges, whether that be through counselling, with one of our online personal development courses, or couple intensives.

Our Team
Our team of expert therapists have experience working with individuals, couples and families
The team have a vast wealth of experience across a diverse array of settings including RELATE, an Addiction Clinic, NHS, School Family Service and a GP’s Surgery and Private Practice for many years


Intensive Couple Retreats
Our intensive couple retreat and relationship Therapy in London will get you back on track
Our Intensive Couple Retreats are a solution focussed and effective approach to healing past relationship issues and to connect in a meaningful. The retreats are designed to gain traction in such a way that most people progress through six months’ worth of couples counselling in two or three days.
What People Say About The Relationship Practice
Pam thank you so much! I had felt so overwhelmed before coming to you but now feel so much more in control and life is feeling good again.
CW, Fulham
I can’t believe how far we have come in such a relatively short space of time. Thank you for all you have done.
Mr & Mrs R ,Coombe
We came away feeling so much happier. You just have an amazing knack of being clear thinking and so perceptive.
RB & KL, Putney
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Therapy
Let us support you with techniques that are specifically tailored to your needs
Therapy can help address many types of issues including depression, anxiety, conflict, grief, stress management, body-image issues, and general life transitions.

Workshops and Courses
Strengthen and nurture your marriage
or partnership through our interactive
workshops and courses.
Our online courses will help you to support your partnership and rediscover the spark.
Our innovative and dynamic courses are delivered by Pam Custers, therapist and Gottman Leader and are designed to create connection, strengthen communication and help you rediscover your spark!

Relationship Advice
Help! My partner refuses to come to Couples Therapy Counselling
Sometimes with the best will in the world our partner refuses to do couple therapy. You know that the time has come to make some changes as your relationship is in trouble. You have asked nicely, you have cajoled and still your partner wont budge. There are a number...
Burn Out!
To be a good mother, partner, friend, work mate we must give, right? We don't just give a little we just keep giving and for many it is a mark of a good person. “It’s better to give than receive” as the adage goes. As women, we can be particularly bad at receiving....
Family Loyalty
Family loyalty is such a complex thing. Blood is thicker than water. Our family of origin is where we learn the many unwritten rules of how we relate. We can often hit a snag when we form our own families and new rules and loyalties need to be forged. Many years ago I...
Quality Standards
You can be reassured that all therapists are handpicked and have been trained to high standards as required by highly regarded UK training organisations. All are experienced and are registered with one of the following.



