Divorce is a family affair!

By Pam Custers, Relationship TherapistSW19 MA Pg/Dip (RELATE) Relationship Therapist  Published on 23rd August, 2018  When our children are hurting, so do we as parents, doubly so when we feel it is somehow our fault. Divorce brings up a range of differing...
What’s your Relationship Dance?

What’s your Relationship Dance?

The couple sit down and as she starts to talk, her husband looks away. He seems more interested in the books on my shelf. The more emotional and pleading she gets, the more withdrawn and shut down he gets. He says he wants the relationship to improve but he...
Are you lonely in Your Relationship?

Are you lonely in Your Relationship?

Connection is the corner stone of all good relationships. I have worked with so many people who often sit in my room and talk about the fact that they are not particularly unhappy but they feel like they are living parallel lives. There is nothing as painful as...