by Pam Custers | Dec 12, 2025 | Health
By Pam Custers, Relationship TherapistSW19 MA Pg/Dip (RELATE) Relationship Therapist Published on 16th November, 2021 | Updated on 7th October, 2022 We need to talk about men’s mental health! Men’s mental health needs to be taken seriously. When one...
by Pam Custers | Dec 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
By Pam Custers, Relationship TherapistSW19 MA Pg/Dip (RELATE) Relationship Therapist Published on 7th October, 2022 “You aren’t listening to me!”Do you sometimes wonder whether your partner is losing their hearing? Do they respond to...
by Pam Custers | Feb 7, 2018 | Category One
The couple sit down and as she starts to talk, her husband looks away. He seems more interested in the books on my shelf. The more emotional and pleading she gets, the more withdrawn and shut down he gets. He says he wants the relationship to improve but he...
by Pam Custers | Dec 6, 2017 | Category One, Category Three, Category Two
Sometimes with the best will in the world our partner refuses to do couple therapy. You know that the time has come to make some changes as your relationship is in trouble. You have asked nicely, you have cajoled and still your partner wont budge. There are a number...
by Pam Custers | Nov 8, 2017 | Category One
To be a good mother, partner, friend, work mate we must give, right? We don’t just give a little we just keep giving and for many it is a mark of a good person. “It’s better to give than receive” as the adage goes. As women, we can be particularly bad at...