by Pam Custers | Dec 12, 2025 | Health
By Pam Custers, Relationship TherapistSW19 MA Pg/Dip (RELATE) Relationship Therapist Published on 23rd August, 2018 When our children are hurting, so do we as parents, doubly so when we feel it is somehow our fault. Divorce brings up a range of differing... by Pam Custers | Dec 12, 2025 | Health
By Pam Custers, Relationship TherapistSW19 MA Pg/Dip (RELATE) Relationship Therapist Published on 16th November, 2021 | Updated on 7th October, 2022 We need to talk about men’s mental health! Men’s mental health needs to be taken seriously. When one...
by Pam Custers | Jan 19, 2018 | Category One
Connection is the corner stone of all good relationships. I have worked with so many people who often sit in my room and talk about the fact that they are not particularly unhappy but they feel like they are living parallel lives. There is nothing as painful as...
by Pam Custers | Dec 6, 2017 | Category One, Category Three, Category Two
Sometimes with the best will in the world our partner refuses to do couple therapy. You know that the time has come to make some changes as your relationship is in trouble. You have asked nicely, you have cajoled and still your partner wont budge. There are a number...
by Pam Custers | Sep 7, 2017 | Category One
Family loyalty is such a complex thing. Blood is thicker than water. Our family of origin is where we learn the many unwritten rules of how we relate. We can often hit a snag when we form our own families and new rules and loyalties need to be forged. Many years ago I...
